The most significant yet the most neglected part of a wedding

 

Life is a long journey which a man cannot cover entirely on his own and so not the women. We all need a partner in our life who can always be there in our ups and downs, happiness and sadness, good times and bad times in short the desire of having someone we can call our better half.

As it is also mentioned in Holy Quran:

And we created you in pairs

So spending a life alone is almost impossible and we cannot deny that finding a partner is every human being’s need.

So being Muslims we have to go through the ceremony of marriage in order to make our relationship halal and legalized.

Whenever there comes the discussion about marriage we talk about each and everything from the discussion of matching jhumkas with mehndi dress to the discussion of banquet halls and all

but we forget to talk about the most sensitive yet the most important part of the wedding that is the

Nikkah Nama

 

This blog is specifically being written for women to let them know the importance of nikkah nama at the time of marriage.

Marriage is a commitment for life. It is a permanent, lifelong relationship

We girls, stay up to dated about every latest trends regarding weddings like what colors are in fashion for wedding days, which kind of makeup look goes with which day, which is the most famous photographers in town at the moment, whom to invite and whom not to.

                        We talk about all these things excitedly as if these things going to secure our future no doubt this all do matters as it makes one happy and makes one’s wedding more lit and these all decisions are made by the bridal herself but when it comes to deciding about taking hold of her rights regarding marriage she pays zero attention to it.

Even if you will ask most of the married women about nikkah nama you will get to know that most of them have no idea about what is written on nikkah nama and how they just let go off their rights.

In fact if some women would ask to go through the nikkah nama, she will be considered chalak (cunning) as this is the mindset of our society.

 So the women is suppose to just sign the nikkah nama without wasting time over reading it.

 

If you go through the nikkah nama u will know that how much security and rights are given to women by Islam in the matter of marriages.

But this needs to be stopped, if you are not married yet then don’t forget to sign the nikkah nama with properly going through it. And if you are married then make other women aware about going through the nikkah nama before signing it blindly.

Girls don’t let your crown or other girl’s crown fall because you all are princesses of your own Castles.

 

Article By Muznah Iqbal, Specially for HK MATRIMONY