I was reading an article the other day that compared arrange a marriage with love marriage. I went through so many comments from people suggesting that arrange marriage is better majorly because you don’t have to put the effort into finding someone suitable for yourself, your parents do this tough job.
When your parents were young and their parents found a spouse for them, it worked! But it ain’t gonna work for you! Why? Because time has changed!
Back then men preferred homey women, while women preferred strong protective men. As we all know women are on wheels now, it’s not going to work. You have to find a partner for yourself according to present-day requirements even if it’s from within the family.
I will tell you how partner-preferences changed over time and how they keep changing with the age of an individual in detail sometime later. For now, we’ll stick to the characteristics that are preferred now.
Here's the list;
I conducted a brief survey and have prepared an ascending list for you to help you understand what people prefer in their mates now;
In research conducted by Marco Weber and Willibald Ruch in 2012, it was concluded that people prefer honesty, love, humor and hope the most in their partners.
I’m sure you also prefer these characteristics in one way or the other but where’s education and socioeconomic status in the list? Let me tell you!
It’s more of a conception of the young generation that their spouse would be as educated and socioeconomically strong as they are so, that’s an obvious requirement. These are abstract materials you can see and verify but what about the personality traits? That’s what people require!
Personality is what matters as long as you’re young because age is positively correlated with financial strength as more of a preference. So if you’re young I suggest you meet your to-be-partner often and check if he/she’s got as a person or human what it would take to keep you happy for a lifetime.
It’s okay if you both are the opposite poles of the magnet!
Opposite sides attract! It is also a bitter truth for many to accept that physical attractiveness and facial beauty is also more of a preference. You would get bored with a person who you never found physically attractive in the first place.
C’mon! be realistic, be bold because you’re going to spend your whole life with that person, choose carefully according to what you can handle!
Find a Rishta, not a Farishta!!
Now If you’re confused about what to look for, use the list above!
But if you’re confused about where to look for, use the link below!
https://www.hkmatrimony.com/public/index.php
HK Matrimony – a wedding portal that will help you not just find your Mr. /Ms. Right but also prepare for your big day!
Your bridge to “Happily Ever After”
Unable to find your perfect match? Worried about being a widower, divorcee, overage, unattractive, disabled in some way, poor or Over-qualified?
No matter what the problem is, HK Matrimony’s got solutions!
Say NO to Stigmas!!
So, I suggest you go visit their “proposal” section for finding your match. Take time, surf through all the marriage proposals, there are plenty; and when you’re done, get to the “wedding bells” section for your wedding prep!
GOODLUCK!
